refactor(server): reduce server resource requests (#10568)

close CLOUD-149

.github/helm/affine/charts/graphql/templates/deployment.yaml

@@ -36,7 +36,7 @@ spec:
           - name: NODE_ENV
             value: "{{ .Values.env }}"
           - name: NODE_OPTIONS
-            value: "--max-old-space-size=4096"
+            value: "--max-old-space-size=2048"
           - name: NO_COLOR
             value: "1"
           - name: DEPLOYMENT_TYPE