feat: improve attachment headers (#13709)

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

- **New Features**
- Safer, consistent file downloads with automatic attachment headers and
filenames.
- Smarter MIME detection for uploads (avatars, workspace blobs, Copilot
files/transcripts).
  - Sensible default buffer limit when reading uploads.

- **Bug Fixes**
- Prevents risky content from rendering inline by forcing downloads and
adding no‑sniff protection.
- More accurate content types when original metadata is missing or
incorrect.
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packages/backend/native/Cargo.toml

@@ -10,6 +10,7 @@ crate-type = ["cdylib"]
 affine_common = { workspace = true, features = ["doc-loader"] }
 chrono        = { workspace = true }
 file-format   = { workspace = true }
+infer         = { workspace = true }
 napi          = { workspace = true, features = ["async"] }
 napi-derive   = { workspace = true }
 rand          = { workspace = true }